I receive many emails from women over 50 who ask me for style tips about what to wear for different occasions.
They especially ask for basic wardrobe tips for women over fifty, and inspiration for wearable fashion for women over 50, because sometimes around this age we lose our connect with what once suited us, and what could suit us in the future.
While Iâm always happy to help based on my own knowledge, Iâm not an out and out fashion expert, so Iâm always delighted when the experts contact me with advice about styling from which I can learn too.
Over 50s fashion from Kirsty
Todayâs post is by a much more talented fashionista than me â the very lovely Kirsty from Shop and Style Specialists. Today sheâs sharing with us some super-helpful style tips about how to be stylish in our 50âs and beyond.
Super Style Tips for Staying Stylish
Julianne Moore, Anna Wintour, Arianna Huffington and my personal favourite Helen Mirren are women who prove that style is accessible at any age. They are women who just refuse to be invisible.
The good news is that itâs not all about money and labels. Style isnât a price tag. It goes much deeper than that. Itâs all encompassing; itâs not just one thing. Itâs not just a jacket or a shoe. Not just a hairdo or a trend. Itâs an overall presence and regardless of age, weight, height, size or shape, stylish women have one thing in common. Confidence.
How does she do that?
Weâve all looked at someone else and thought, âHow does she do that?â We want to look and feel like the women who look effortless, chic and fresh at any given moment, no matter the occasion. Usually itâs just little things that make the difference. The way an outfit is put together, the cut of the pant, the fit of a jacket. These women always seem comfortable in their own skin, as well as their clothes.
And the trick? Itâs about knowing yourself as much as anything else.
How to dress elegantly at 50
Each one of us has our very own style personality. Itâs a mirror of our true identity and it reflects what we truly love to wear. Unfortunately, because we tend to look for external rather than internal gratification, most of us arenât being true to our own style personalities. We wear things that look good in a catalogue, on a hanger or even on someone else instead of wearing things that truly look good on us.
Whatever your size, shape or age you can dress with style and confidence. Iâm 45 years old, have three-month-old twins, run my own business and am project managing a house build. Even though my stomach muscles separated during pregnancy, I have little to no sleep and I still look four months pregnant, every time I walk out of the house I make sure I look fresh and feel confident.
As a result, I know a few things about how to style yourself happier than youâve ever been before.
If you want to be stylish over 50, read on.
Vivienne Westwood knows we can be stylish over 50
After all, we women of a certain age are currently in fashion, so to speak. Vivienne Westwood, Dolce & Gabbana and Diane von Furstenburg are all attempting to attract a mature woman, just to name a few. Even Fast Fashion has realised that we are the new target market. After all, weâve worked hard, weâre smart, brave and bold. And we have our finances together.
Thatâs why you can walk into any Fast Fashion store (Valley Girl, Temt, H&M, Zara, Topshop, Forever 21etc.) and find plenty of pieces that suit a middle-aged gal.
Fashion over 50 â Trash the style myth
Letâs break a myth right now, being stylish over fifty doesnât mean dressing younger. It means dressing with elegance, charm and grace with equal parts of spunk, sass and wit.
Itâs always wise to ensure you have some amazing basics in your wardrobe. Understanding your body shape is crucial to choosing the right shapes for you. This, and a few of my favourite tips and tricks will have you looking and feeling gorgeous at any age.
How to be a stylish woman
There must be a least one stunning âgo toâ dress in your wardrobe. A short sleeved, knee length sheath dress, well shaped at the waist is perfect. Lace overlay is great as the top layer smoothes over any lumps and bumps. I like Review for feminine lace frocks. Another favourite is the DVF wrap dress â stunning on all figures. Try Aussie Leona Edmiston, plenty of choices with short, long and Â¾ sleeves.
2. The Perfect Pant
A straight, wide leg pant is not only the most flattering on most figures, but also the most versatile. One of my favourite tips to elongate legs is to always wear the same colour shoes as pants. This will make you look taller and thinner â Youâre Welcome! Go for a straight leg crepe pant that will hold itâs shape and smooth over bumps (we love that). And remember to do the âsit downâ test in the dressing room before you purchase. Try Veronica Maine and Cue.
3. Far From Basic Blouse
Chiffon all the way. Choose a V-neck with a tied bow detail for classic elegance. Ruffled is also wonderful. Ensure the sleeves are cuffed if long and a gather at the shoulder is a must. Shaped is best and can work perfectly with either pants or jeans. Ralph Lauren is a favourite here, but also keep a look out at the Fast Fashion stores.
4. The Right Jacket
I love an amazing fitted jacket. It should go perfectly with your corporate wardrobe and your favourite jeans. This piece is worth getting tailored if you need to. Itâs the piece youâll most likely need to dry clean, but itâs also the piece that will be the most stunning and versatile of all the basics. It needs to be shaped perfectly to your body. The lapels should be long and thin. Two to three buttons at the most that are understated, not gaudy. For most body shapes the length should be hip/mid bottom. The fit across the shoulders is crucial, and for most women a slightly padded shoulder is perfect.
5. Perfect Jeans
Again, opt for a straight leg. Choose dark coloured denim, and be careful of embellishments like whiskers that go horizontally across your hips, they make you look wider. Jeans West has a great price point and quality and the staff usually know their jeans. You may think Guess is for a younger crowd, but try them out, their jeans are amazing â I wouldnât be without them.
6. Shoes, OhMyGosh! Shoes!!
Getting older is no good reason to wear âman shoesâ. You know the ones I mean. Those big, flat, wide ugly man shoes that turn your feet into mini canoes. There are plenty of comfortable pretty shoes out there. Please give them a home! Kitten heels are back, ballet flats are everywhere and low wedges are as stunning as they are comfy. Try Wittner and Nine West, or even better go to Shoesofprey.com and design your own! Including heel height.
7. Classic Jumper
Too many times I see ladies in baggy, oversized jumpers. These will only ever make you look larger. Instead opt for a correctly fitted, classic cashmere jumper. Try ASOS for a range of colours and prices. Camel is a traditional cashmere colour. I like cream and soft pink as well.
Donât skimp on it just because you think no one will see it. We can all see the effects of it. Ill-fitting underwear leaves bumps and marks and is just uncomfortable.
But did you know that an incorrectly sized bra can make you look a dress size larger?Â Get fitted and spoil yourself with new lingerie. Thereâs nothing sexier than wearing French lace every day. Try Oroton for fit and comfort, but if youâre really serious and only French lingerie will do, go for Simone Perele.
How to dress younger at 50
Hereâs a trend, youâre not too old for â¦
9. The Jumpsuit
I heart jumpsuits! They are so elegant, comfortable, stunning, versatile, stylish, sexyâ¦ I could go on and onâ¦ From casual brunch to cocktails, a jumpsuit can take you anywhere. Teamed with a tailored jacket it can even go from desk to date. Thereâs plenty to choose from online.
Style tips for women
Remember this is just the start of what could be your most stunning wardrobe yet. Once you have these basics you can add your own flavor with t-shirt, scarves, gloves, sunglasses and bags. Every outfit should have one major focal point. Be it the sexy shoes, amazing jacke, stunning sequined top or funky Prada glasses, one piece should ultimately stand out. Donât let your outfit fight with itâs self for attention â youâll get lost in the mix.
Try not to be too safe. Stylish clothes for over fifties means being confident in your choices and donât stick with whatâs expected. I love a cashmere sweater with leather look leggings and ankle boots, or a leopard print handbag with a pink cocktail dress.
Donât look around for the next generation of style icons. Itâs us. Our lives, our experiences and our wisdom is the new sexy. Fifty is no longer invisible. So go and turn some heads. Thatâs what we do now.
If youâd like to know your style profile, complete with style personality, body shape and colours contact Kirsty at Shop and Style Specialists or call 0421 661 393. Receive a 20% discount when booking your style profile and wardrobe sort when you mention this story. Or join the SaSSy Style Club and receive monthly fashion looks styled just for you, a phone chat with your stylist and unlimited style advice (you can text or email a stylist when youâre out shopping on your own). Higher levels of membership get more great perks.
Over to you Lifestylers â got a style tip youâd like to share? Fire away â¦
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